Hello,
This same behavior was bugging me too.. I would renice all the threads to 19, as it was interrupting system responsiveness since bitcoind was taking priority, but every so often the program would automatically reset the priority to something that would disrupt system responsiveness ..
so what I did was just edit util.h 
and change the function that manipulates the priority:
inline void SetThreadPriority(int nPriority)
{
    printf("No, were not changing any damn priority
");
}
and then recompiled bitcoind 
now I just renice all the threads once, and they are stuck at what I set them to until program exit (NI column staying at 19):
   1  [||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||100.0%]     Time: 03:59:40
  2  [||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||100.0%]     Uptime: 253 days(!), 01:12:27
  Mem[||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||501/1255MB]     Load: 4.01
  Swp[||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||                                            501/1004MB]     Load average: 4.01 4.15 3.49
         __   __         __   __        __  __   __         __   __         __   __         __   __                             __  __              __
        |  | |__         __| |__       |__||__  |__|       |  | |  |       |  | |  |       |  | |  |                            __| __|   |           |
  Avg:  |__|.|__|% sy:  |__ . __|% ni:  __||__|.|__|% hi:  |__|.|__|% si:  |__|.|__|% wa:  |__|.|__|%                   Tasks:  __| __|   | total,    | running
  PID USER     PRI  NI  VIRT   RES   SHR S CPU% MEM%   TIME+  Command
 4523 root      39  19  126M 46280  3424 S  0.0  3.6  0:00.66  `- bitcoind -gen -daemon
 4534 root      39  19  126M 46280  3424 R 90.0  3.6 12:43.73  |   `- bitcoind -gen -daemon
 4533 root      39  19  126M 46280  3424 R 45.0  3.6 10:49.02  |   `- bitcoind -gen -daemon
 4532 root      39  19  126M 46280  3424 R 46.0  3.6 10:05.83  |   `- bitcoind -gen -daemon
 4531 root      39  19  126M 46280  3424 S  0.0  3.6  0:00.03  |   `- bitcoind -gen -daemon
 4530 root      39  19  126M 46280  3424 S  1.0  3.6  0:15.53  |   `- bitcoind -gen -daemon
 4529 root      39  19  126M 46280  3424 S  0.0  3.6  0:00.72  |   `- bitcoind -gen -daemon
 4527 root      39  19  126M 46280  3424 S  0.0  3.6  0:00.02  |   `- bitcoind -gen -daemon
 4526 root      39  19  126M 46280  3424 S  0.0  3.6  0:00.03  |   `- bitcoind -gen -daemon
 4525 root      39  19  126M 46280  3424 S  0.0  3.6  0:00.06  |   `- bitcoind -gen -daemon
in my debug.log: 
[root@raidserv] (~/.bitcoin)# grep "No," debug.log
No, were not changing any damn priority
No, were not changing any damn priority
No, were not changing any damn priority
No, were not changing any damn priority
...
So now I can leave bitcoind running all day long without me noticing much...